I received the following book for free from Revell publishers, to read and review on my blog.
Available October 2009 at your favorite bookseller from Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group. Amazon price: $12.23
About the book:
Have a new husband by Friday? Is that even possible? Dr. Kevin Leman says it is. The New York Times bestselling author and self-help guru shows even the most frustrated wife how she can have a new husband by Friday. Leman reminds any wife that if what she's doing to get better behavior out of her husband isn't working now, it never will. So it's time for a change. That means it's time to change her own patterns of behavior.
Here's how Leman suggests she handle it day to day: Monday: Secrets Revealed: Cracking the Male Code Yes, you're different species, but you can work together in harmony. Tuesday: Creatures from Another Planet . . . or Creatures of Habit? To understand men, you have to track 'em to their den. Wednesday: Think about What You Want to Say, Then Divide It by Ten How to talk so your guy will really listen . . . and listen so your guy will really talk. Thursday: Think of Him as a Seal Waiting for a Three-Pound Fish Why making love to your man is a key to who he is and how satisfied he'll be, and what's in it for you. Friday: It Takes a Real Woman to Make a Man Feel like a Real Man How to open your man's heart, revolutionize your love life, and turn him into the knight you've always dreamed of.
About the author:
A well-known media personality, speaker and columnist, Dr. Kevin Leman has appeared on programs including Oprah, CNN, Good Morning America, CBS’ THE Eearly Show, LIVE with Regis and Kelly, Today and The View. He is a charter faculty member of iQuestions, an online resource where experts provide answers to life’s toughest questions, and the founder and president of Couples of Promise, an organization he created to help couples remain happily married.
Dr. Kevin Leman’s books on parenting, marriage, family and relationships are a must-have.
Dr. Leman, whose professional affiliations include the American Psychological Association, American Federation of Television and Radio Artists, National Register of Health Services Providers in Psychology, and the North American Society of Adlerian Psychology, earned his Doctorate degree in psychology from the University of Arizona. He lives in Tucson, Arizona, with his wife, Sande, and they have five children.
Dr. Leman is the author of more than 30 books and a dozen audio and DVD video titles. His bestsellers include: The Firstborn Advantage; The Birth Order Book: Why You Are The Way You Are; Have a New Kid by Friday; What Your Childhood Memories Say About You; Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours; Single Parenting That Works!; First Time Mom; What a Difference a Daddy Makes.
My Thoughts:
Not being a huge fan of Christian self-help books, I attempted to enter reading "Have a New Husband by Friday" with an open mind. I began reading and enjoyed the first few chapters. But then Dr. Leman began to encourage strategies that to me are manipulative and dangerous. To get my leaky faucet fixed, I should be able to lovingly ask my husband and I wait patiently. I should not use sex as a tool to get what I need. Encouraging women to do certain behaviors in order to get desired results to me seems wrong. I can not give my stamp of approval on a book that to me seems contrary to the Biblical teachings of Titus 2 and 1 Peter 3. Christian wives should desire to please their husbands and seek out to serve them, because of the Biblical teachings and not to get something out of there husbands.







